More on Bickering

Sometimes the Anixter Center cafeteria sounds like a bunch of gossipers wasting staff time to speak for them to their neighbor about their problems. This could turn off some people from eating in the cafeteria.

This form of bickering is hideous, disgusting and ignorant-- it turns my stomach!

If you bicker, people lose  interest in having a relationship with you because you  are boring and negative. Bickerers don't like themselves.

Try to be patient and positive with bickerers. They need our compassion. Suggest other topics, change the subject, offer a break. These are my ideas.

How do you deal with bickering?

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